Abused Women Often Fear for Pets Left Behind
Have you ever known or known of an abused woman, and wondered why she won't leave him? It may be because of a pet. Jennifer Hardesty, associate professor of human development and family studies at the University of Illinois, discovered when she interviewed women victims of domestic violence that 34 percent of women delayed leaving out of concern for their pets because their abuser had threatened and harmed the animals in the past. " He made me stand there and . . . watch [him kill my cat]. And he was like: That could happen to you ." ~ Study participant Admittedly Hardesty's sample size was small, 19 women, but it does point out a somewhat unexpected complication in these stories of abuse, which could make an interesting and educational plot twist in your next story. "For abused women, a pet can be a treasured source of unconditional love and comfort -- maybe even protection -- in a time of transition. Many are strongly bonded to their animals